★Nakaleong★

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>Name: Aik Leong
>Zodiac: Cancer
>25th June
>20+ male
>Likes: Supper Soccer Friends Sleep Lamejokes No8 Fuschia SHE(Esp Hebe)
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Saturday, June 30, 2007

~* losing and winning is common in battles *~

Indeed, losing and winning is common in battles...hence, one shouldn't be too sad when we end up on the losing end(but one is often overjoyed when they win..hahah).

I beg to differ in some sense...it is indeed no shame to lose to a great opponent if we have already given our best..as theres nothing to be ashamed of.However, I cannot help but feel terribly disturbed when i lose against opponents that are definately not better than us(and maybe not even on par)...

I also believe that when we lose, its better if we say out wat went wrong and everyone be open to hear their mistakes or points to improve.Its no use 'consoling' the players by saying 'It was a good game, we were jus unlucky'.Obviously we are in control of our own fate to a certain extend.This is football..not 4d or toto.Even 4d and toto u control ur fate by choosing the number u wan to buy.We need to noe why we lose, how we let in the goal and the players must learn from the mistakes...if they dun, we will lose again cos of the same mistakes over and over again.

I tot we could enjoy the last 3 games of the season but obviously we need to work harder.Lets hope the last 2 can be better.

extracted from nakaleong at 11:44 PM.